Per serving, worked out from the ingredient table. Grandma's way is the starting point the other versions are compared with.
Ingredients
Bitter gourd (bitter melon)2 medium
Salt1 tsp plus a pinch
Sugar½ tsp
Firm tofufirm, pressed
Pork bellythin slices, in bite pieces
Egg2, beaten
Cooking oil (vegetable oil)1 tbsp
Soy sauce1 tbsp
Bonito flakesa handful
Black peppera few grinds
Method
5 steps
1Halve the bitter gourds, scoop out the seeds and pith and slice 3 mm thin. Toss with 1 tsp salt and the sugar and rest 10 minutes, then squeeze and rinse.
2Heat the oil in a wok on medium high. Tear the tofu into rough chunks and fry 5 minutes until golden on most sides. Remove.
3Fry the pork in the same wok for 3 minutes until browned and cooked through.
4Add the bitter gourd and stir fry 2 minutes. Return the tofu and add the soy sauce and pepper.
5Pour in the beaten egg, wait 20 seconds, then fold everything together until the egg is just set. Top with bonito flakes.
Serve it like this
Serve in a shallow bowl with bonito flakes heaped on top so they wave in the steam. Plain rice on the side.